melancholic maladies

All the lonely people, where do they all come from?
Two of my teachers (note, the two most liberal and my favorite teachers in the school) don’t think that pansexuality is real.
It hurts to hear things like that, but I know that this can only be a ~*teaching*~ moment and they might actually learn something from ME. :3

Two of my teachers (note, the two most liberal and my favorite teachers in the school) don’t think that pansexuality is real.

It hurts to hear things like that, but I know that this can only be a ~*teaching*~ moment and they might actually learn something from ME. :3

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My Sexuality - a poem I wrote today

Baby, don’t act so shy.
I’ll love you
goddamn accept you
stand up for you
for your identity and orientation
so I ask that you do the same
Yes, I like the ladies
But I also like the boys
and I like the andros
I like the trans
the queens and queers
I like the fems
and I like the mascs
Just like
I like the swell in your back
I like those intersex
intergender
and bis
I like those As
and all of those questioning
if they’re a girl or a guy
including everyone inbetween
I don’t care if
you’re cis
but that won’t do for me
I fit with the best of them
LGBTQQIIAA and P
the P, stands for me
and the type of person I am
I like people.
I like humanity.
I like breathing life into whoever I meet.
So they might understand
that type of person I am.
Pansexual is me.
I like living free.

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cassket:

MSNBC Talks To And About Trans People For An Hour, Doesn’t F*ck It Up

We’re only about 30 seconds into MSNBC’s 20-minute “Transgender in America” segment when host Melissa Harris-Perry describes herself as “cis,” explaining that “cis” means that “the sex of the body I was born with, the gender I was assigned at birth, and my personal identity all match. She then pointed out that “being ‘cis’ does not make me “normal” or “natural,” it just makes me cis.” After last week’s shitshow with Barbara Walters and Jenna Talackova, the last thing anybody expected from a mainstream (if left-leaning) news organization was to hear the definition of “cisgender” on National television. It gets better from there.

The National Center for Transgender Equality, in its press release, said of the MSNBC program that:

“For the first time in recent memory, a major television network will dedicate an hour-long panel to discussing transgender social and political issues. NCTE Executive Director Mara Keisling will be a featured guest on the show joining other recognized experts on trans issues. The panel will focus broadly on advancing transgender equality and other political issues.”

“When we see transgender people like Chaz Bono or others in the media, we’re often encouraged to see the spectacular, not the person,” Harris-Perry explained before introducing three guests: author and activist Kate Bornstein, the aforementioned Mara Keisling and Mel Wymore (a Democratic candidate for the New York City Council). She later brings out Allison Kilkenny of Citizen Radio who also chimes in on issues within the LGBT community that don’t really apply to the “T.” The importance of non-discrimination policies were addressed at length, including the Prison Rape Elimination Act, as well as the importance of inclusiveness within the LGBTQ community. They went into how issues like same-sex marriage and Don’t Ask Don’t Tell have very different impacts on different segments of the LGTBQ umbrella and how crucial it is that the LGBs understand that.

After going over some of the harrowing statistics about discrimination against transgender people in housing, employment, school and the criminal justice system, the story of African-American transgender Crishuan “CeCe” McDonald is introduced. CeCe was, as Kate Bornstein describes it, “beaten savagely by a group of folks and she fought back and ended up, in self-defense, killing one of her attackers. She was charged with second-degree murder, and put in the slammer, and that’s that.”  Harris-Perry compares CeCe’s situation to that of Trayvon Martinand Kate mentions the online petition that you should all sign to get her out of jail.

“Transgender people are just normal people in most ways,” Keisling declared. “but nature loves diversity.”

The ensuing 15 minutes, which were devoted to discussing the Obama administration’s refusal to sign the executive order against discrimination by employers with federal contracts based on gender identity and sexual orientation, which Jillian T.Weiss writes about on the Bilerco Project today.

All-in-all, a pretty solid program and an excellent antidote to the Barbara Walters situation. (Although I was a little surprised by the section where Kate and Melissa seemed to imply that most trans people don’t use/like binary-identified pronouns — what did y’all think of that part?)  In response to the Jenna Talackova 20/20 interview, many hoped that the sort of horrifying way in which that was covered would at least open up a door to discussing trans issues in a more serious and less sensationalistic way. This piece would suggest that the door is opening, and that people are walking through it. And that’s pretty fucking awesome.

I’m impressed

this is so great.

I cried.

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thedailywhat:

Santorum Santorum Says of the Day: Gone mostly unnoticed until very recently is a comment made by presidential candidate Rick Santorum during a December 30th NBC News interview, in which he made clear his intention to nullify all legal same-sex marriages currently in existence across the country.
The latest census data, collected in 2010, puts the number of married same-sex couples at 131,000, but that number is likely higher now.
Santorum said he plans to introduce an amendment to the Constitution that would not only make same-sex marriages illegal throughout the nation in perpetuity, but would also invalidate all existing unions.
“We can’t have 50 different marriage laws in this country,” he remarked. “You have to have one marriage law.”
The former Senator has come under fire in the past for comparing same-sex marriages to the matrimony of “man on child” and “man on dog.”
Both Mitt Romney and Newt Gingrich has expressed their intention to ban same-sex marriage through a Constitutional amendment, but have not gone so far as to demand the retroactive nullification of existing marriages.
Ron Paul, who is personally opposed to same-sex marriage, says the federal government should not be involved in deciding who can and cannot get married.
Asked how he would go about getting such an amendment approved, given growing public support for gay rights, Santorum inadvertently made a powerful appeal to history in favor of marriage equality.
“Just because public opinion says something doesn’t mean it’s right,” he said. “I’m sure there were times in areas of this country when people said blacks were less than human.”
[sfgate.]

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thedailywhat:

Santorum Santorum Says of the Day: Gone mostly unnoticed until very recently is a comment made by presidential candidate Rick Santorum during a December 30th NBC News interview, in which he made clear his intention to nullify all legal same-sex marriages currently in existence across the country.

The latest census data, collected in 2010, puts the number of married same-sex couples at 131,000, but that number is likely higher now.

Santorum said he plans to introduce an amendment to the Constitution that would not only make same-sex marriages illegal throughout the nation in perpetuity, but would also invalidate all existing unions.

“We can’t have 50 different marriage laws in this country,” he remarked. “You have to have one marriage law.”

The former Senator has come under fire in the past for comparing same-sex marriages to the matrimony of “man on child” and “man on dog.”

Both Mitt Romney and Newt Gingrich has expressed their intention to ban same-sex marriage through a Constitutional amendment, but have not gone so far as to demand the retroactive nullification of existing marriages.

Ron Paul, who is personally opposed to same-sex marriage, says the federal government should not be involved in deciding who can and cannot get married.

Asked how he would go about getting such an amendment approved, given growing public support for gay rights, Santorum inadvertently made a powerful appeal to history in favor of marriage equality.

“Just because public opinion says something doesn’t mean it’s right,” he said. “I’m sure there were times in areas of this country when people said blacks were less than human.”

[sfgate.]

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thedailywhat:

And Then There Were Seven of the Day: “Here in our state we have taken a long and difficult journey, and this is the last step,” declared Governor Christine Gregoire as she signed the bill making same-sex marriages legal in the state of Washington.
The Evergreen State thus joins six other states (MA, NH, VT, CT, IA, NY) and the District of Columbia in recognizing the right of same-sex couples to marry.
The law doesn’t officially take effect until June 7th, meaning opponents have until June 6th to gather the 120,000 signatures necessary to stop same-sex marriages and put the issue on November’s ballot.
In related news, New Jersey’s state Senate today also passed legislation legalizing same-sex marriage, but the Garden State has still a ways to go: Gov. Chris Christie has vowed to veto any same-sex bill that crosses his desk.
[seattlepi / nj / photo: slog.]

HOLLA

thedailywhat:

And Then There Were Seven of the Day: “Here in our state we have taken a long and difficult journey, and this is the last step,” declared Governor Christine Gregoire as she signed the bill making same-sex marriages legal in the state of Washington.

The Evergreen State thus joins six other states (MA, NH, VT, CT, IA, NY) and the District of Columbia in recognizing the right of same-sex couples to marry.

The law doesn’t officially take effect until June 7th, meaning opponents have until June 6th to gather the 120,000 signatures necessary to stop same-sex marriages and put the issue on November’s ballot.

In related news, New Jersey’s state Senate today also passed legislation legalizing same-sex marriage, but the Garden State has still a ways to go: Gov. Chris Christie has vowed to veto any same-sex bill that crosses his desk.

[seattlepi / nj / photo: slog.]

HOLLA

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Why homosexuality should be banned.

THE SARCASM IN THIS IS AMAZING

Watch it

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razzledazzy:

Tumblr this is a different poll on the same site. Come on guys we can fix this, it’s a disgrace. 
Vote here.

GET CRACKIN’ HERE TUMBLR.

I recommend not looking at the comments, they’re pretty sickening

I just see a billion comments left by people entering their names as “tAVROS nITRAM” and stuff and I can’t stop giggling like an idiot
Tumblr… you’re such a butt

Come on, guys, BOMB THIS POLL! I can’t believe the opposition has such a huge majority. :/ It’s pretty … gross.

It’s been a while since we did a good ol’ Tumblr bomb. Let’s get on it!

Reppin&#8217; pink for Negaunee, MI! 

stfusexists:

lettherebecramp:

hurrdofdurrdles:

buttpilgrim:

ataraxiansmile:

razzledazzy:

Tumblr this is a different poll on the same site. Come on guys we can fix this, it’s a disgrace. 

Vote here.

GET CRACKIN’ HERE TUMBLR.

I recommend not looking at the comments, they’re pretty sickening

I just see a billion comments left by people entering their names as “tAVROS nITRAM” and stuff and I can’t stop giggling like an idiot

Tumblr… you’re such a butt

Come on, guys, BOMB THIS POLL! I can’t believe the opposition has such a huge majority. :/ It’s pretty … gross.

It’s been a while since we did a good ol’ Tumblr bomb. Let’s get on it!

Reppin’ pink for Negaunee, MI! 

Holy shit, guys!

The Gay-Straight Alliance that I’ve been planning for the past 2 months was officially approved by the school board today.

I’m so excited I could puke.

I’ll post a more in-depth entry when I’m not peeing my pants with glee.